Aidan SunasseeSex and intimacy coaching
Judgment-free, one-on-one conversations about sexuality, identity, desire, boundaries, and relationships, with a certified sexologist. It doesn’t have to be all about kink!
Book a free 15-minute introduction callWhat is sex coaching?
Coaching here means education, reflection and practical skills: understanding what you want, finding language for it, and negotiating it with the people in your life.
I can help you to…
- Figure out what you’re drawn to, and reconnect with desire and self-expression.
- Say what you want and what you don’t, and negotiate consent and boundaries.
- Navigate a relationship, a dynamic or an open or polyamorous structure.
- Make sense of an experience that may have been overwhelming, at a pace that suits you.
Who I am
I’m Aidan Sunassee, a sexologist, kink coach, sexuality educator and researcher exploring the intersections of trauma, healing and sexuality. My work is kink-affirming and trauma-aware, so you won’t be asked to explain or justify what you’re into. Or what you aren’t into.
Booking and cost
Start with a free 15-minute introduction call to see whether it’s a good fit.
Full sessions are €100 per hour, with student discounts and sliding scale options. They run over Zoom, usually with video, although I am open to talking about alternatives you may be more comfortable with. You stay in control of how much we explore and can pause, redirect or take a break at any point.
Most sessions are booked one at a time, but if you’d like regular check-ins, we can set up a multi-session package.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to be experienced in kink to work with you?
Not at all. If it has to do with sex, intimacy, or sexuality, you're in the right place.
I'm asexual and want to work with you, is that okay?
Yes. I am on the ace spectrum too.
Do you work with couples or polycules?
Yes. I offer sessions for individuals, couples, and multi-partner dynamics depending on your needs.
Are sessions online?
Yes. Consultations take place over Zoom or another secure platform, so we can work together wherever you are. Workshops can be hosted online or in person.
What does a session cost?
A 15-minute introduction call is free. Full-length sessions are €100 per hour (contact me for other currency rates). Student discounts and sliding scale options are available.
Are you a therapist?
No. I'm a sexologist and sexuality educator, not a licensed therapist. Sessions are coaching and education, not a substitute for mental health treatment. I can share grounding tools and point you to trauma-informed resources or directories if you want additional support.